My parents divorced when I was very young and they both remaried before I was three. For the longest time I thought everyone had two families. As I grew up they all began to see the value in each other and so it was that they grew to become friends and care very much for each other. This whole set up seems very normal to my children who have spent more than a few holidays with both sets together plus a set of great grandparents thrown in. Recently I realized that my 7 yr old thought that my step dad and step mom had been married to each other before, just as my mom and dad had been married to each other before - then they all switched partners, got divorced, and married the other one - which is swinging not what happened. And he calls my first dad "original dad" when referring to him in stories. I love that. I always hated saying my "real dad and step dad". A few weekends ago Sister and I took the children & my dad (the widower) to see my original dad and mama Susie (that's what we call her). The picture showcases my dads and the video is my original dad. And yes that is a Mohawk he sports. Enjoy! I have NO IDEA why the hell he is doing this.
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haha! This brightened my day.
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