Shug and I have been married 15 years. In that time there have been more than a million I love you, almost as many I'm sorry, some do-overs, some I'm finished, tons of laughter, 2 kids, 1 dog, 1 house and I would do it all again. That's the thing that makes me the happiest. That in the deepest part of my soul I know that I would marry him again, in a heart beat. Would I marry someone else if something happened to him? Never! Not because I believe there is only one love or that I could never love again after him - I'm just knowing that marriage is a lot of work, and sometimes it's a beating and basically I would be to selfish to ever put up with and put it all out there again. But for him, I would. So here's the card I gave him, and I think it pretty much sums it all up.
For the record, I still haven't gotten an answer from him on this one.